A great lesson from Ally Mcbeal :

” if u see me walking d road w/ sum1 else, it is not bcoz i like dat person’s company, it is bcoz u r were not brave enuf to walk beside me.
if u hear me talking bout dat person all d tym, it is not bcoz all person pleases me, it is bcoz u were deaf to hear my heart beating.
if u feel me falling w/ sum1 new, it is not bcoz i love dat person, it is bcoz u were not there to CATCH ME . . . “