This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love... they try to possess it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand. Love will retrieve from you.For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to practice.Ü...